CoachingFood for thought

Why am I so impulsive? Why do I explode?

You see a trigger and anger, annoyance or disappointment boils up inside you. You become impulsive, you explode, perhaps you become hurtful or humiliating. And sometimes you get angry later that your emotions, your anger, have taken control of you. You “could have said it differently”. What does it take for such explosions? What happens…

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How many am I? Or: ‘The adapted little one’ with the explosions

Das brave, angepasste Kind

Discover your ego states, discover what scares you, makes you small, reduces your self-esteem. Find out how you can develop strength and self-confidence – and what this can do for you and your private and professional environment. #ego parts #coaching #transactional analysis

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I MUST control myself

Does it work? Our answer as coaches is clear: no. Domination is control, is power. Strong, deep emotions come from deep layers, from parts of your personality that want and are allowed to contribute to your ego just as much as your rational parts. The booklet “Die Kunst sich selbst aushalten” by Michael Bordt, which…

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Search Inside Yourself

“Discover the power of mindfulness and emotional intelligence in everyday working life with ‘Search Inside Yourself’ by Chade-Meng Tan. A practical guide for more calm and compassion.” #Bookrecommendation #Mindfulness #EmotionalIntelligence #Coaching #PersonalDevelopment